You know you need to pour into yourself. But as an ambitious woman, you know you don’t want the living in the gym, prepping a 2-hour dinner life. You want the light version of self-care, pouring into movement and nutrition without it pulling away from your goals.

This is for you if…

You have 100 things on your to-do list, a buzzing work travel schedule, and if that client turns out to be a nightmare, you will lose your mind. No way can you get to the gym this week.

→ You have a social life to maintain. A 10-hour workday because goals. And you don’t even like to cook. That storm always manages to get you to the bottom of your to-take-care-of list.
→ You’ve tried the whole 30-day program, telling yourself
‘this is it’ but it’s really overwhelming to do a lifestyle glow-up without any tools, so you always end up falling short. Which you HATE admitting.
→ You want to do all of the things, but you hit serious
3 pm energy crashes and honestly should be sponsored by Starbucks.

→ You truly can’t stop. When someone says a 12-step face routine, you want to slap them. But at the same, you’re craving a life with more presence and self care. 

→ You feel like you’re forgetting things because by pouring into your career, there’s no time to slow down and pour into you.

Get SELF(ISH)!

Meet your Coach

Hi, I’m Aniese!

I used to think success meant saying yes to everything—more hours, more responsibility, more output. I was seeing raises, but no promotions. I kept up the pace with caffeine and never-ending to-do lists. But under the surface? I was always tired, foggy, and secretly fantasizing about quitting for a simpler job (even though I knew that wouldn’t make me happy either).

I started relying on convenient, not-so-nourishing meals. Skipped movement. “Me time” became non-existent.

Until I realized: no one was going to make me a priority but me.
And that’s when everything started to shift.

I pulled from my background and got curious—about how food made me feel, how movement impacted my mood, and how building habits I actually enjoyed helped me show up with more clarity, energy, and presence. I stopped waiting for some future version of myself to “have it all together” and started becoming her—one self(ish) decision at a time.

That shift didn’t just change my health—it changed my life.
I got promoted. Then promoted again. Then landed a new role making $30K more.
Not because I did more—but because I finally started with me.

Now, I help other ambitious women do the same: build simple, feel-good routines that support their energy and success without burning them out.

Because being a little self(ish)?
That’s what makes everything else possible.

Because your healthiest self isn’t found — she’s built, step by step.

The Self(ish) Membership
$190.00
Every month


✓ Weekly On-Demand Workouts
✓ Nutrition Framework + Monthly Recipes
✓ Monthly 30-minute Video Coaching
✓ Weekly Accountability Check-Ins
✓ Daily Access to Coach Support via Voxer